If I could only recommend one self-help book, it might be Steering by Starlight by Martha Beck. The subtitle, The Science and Magic of Finding Your Destiny, is an understatement.
For me, the magic was a real surprise. This has completely transformed how I start my day and the kinds of surprises and serendipity — often pure magic — that show up.
I did all of the exercises in the book. I think that’s important. However, I was a little loose with a couple of them and it didn’t seem to significantly impact the results.
I’m still a little stunned at how well this book works. In fact, the magic part baffles me. It’s like a science fiction movie or a fairy tale, in which the road magically appears just a few steps ahead of you, always extending just a little further with each step.
When I finished each exercise, I almost always found myself in the middle of exactly what the next chapter addressed… even when it seemed pretty distinct and non sequitur from whatever Ms. Beck was about to talk about.
Be prepared. It’s not an easy book to go through. Some of the self-examination can get messy. It is very likely to shake up a lot of what you thought you wanted out of life.
However, the clarity of vision you’ll gain… it makes the difficult truths worth facing.
One small note: If you’re LDS (Mormon), you may find some of Ms. Beck’s comments a little snide or harsh. Given her past, I think her attitudes are understandable. I just wouldn’t want those few comments to detract from your experience, or even put you off reading this book.
All in all, this is one of the best self-help books I’ve ever read. I recommend it 100% and — except for the comments about Utah — I’d give this five stars.
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